If the Shoe Fits, Wear It….

With the world we live in today, I find it to be extremely disturbing dealing with certain individuals who claim to be ONE thing and yet their actions display a completely different thing. Jay-Z said it best when he stated “Girls, Girls, Girls, Girls..” and although he doesnt mean it in the same context as I, it wouldnt have been expressed any better.

Sometimes I wonder what drives a woman to be sooo shallow. Ive never been fond of dealing with an ex of a friend or anything of that nature. But lately ive found that alot of shit been going “sideways”, But im saying if the shoe fits, then by all means, wear it!!! I would never knock anyone elses way of going about things, id sismply state the facts and let it be known , I do NOT rock LIKE THAT and NEVER WILL.

See, My Shoe, it couldnt be a more perfect fit. I dont settle PURPOSELY, and if i come to find out that things arent going my way, nor are they going the right way, i keep it moving like i never even stopped!!! Young, ambitious, college girl from the hood, desires the finest of the finest and will work hard on MY OWN to make sure that i acquire MY REQUIRED RETURN in LIFE!!! Ever hear the old cliche, “you get back what you put in…” well im putting in that crazy OT, and so for that i look forward to that large payout. I have and will never rely on a man to stabilize me in my life, IM INDEPENDENT, and i would never allow for anyone to take that from me. I could easily SETTLE for a dude who wants to provide me with the world, but what fulfillment will i be getting out of that??? Flossing MOMENTARILY, and then when thats over, how do i explain myself, how do i explain why im not DOING IT like i was before…One of my homegirls once said ” what is the point in me dealing w. a man that im not even able to lay next to in bed because i am NOT attracted to him…He can have all the Louis, Gucci, that he wants, thats not going to satisfy me….”  She couldnt have said it in a more sophisticated and classy manner. This is indeed TRUE…Those are the shoes im weraing, Metaphorically speaking Im rocking those Christian Louboutin’s and these other females are still on those Nine West. See MY shoe is high class, EARNED, they shoes are simply a pair they SETTLED for because it was EASY…..For all the idiots i am using shoes as a metaphor of life….

I find that alot of females in the hood are simply searching for a MAN that will carry them inlife because they chose to sell themselves short, so now they need an EASY OUTLET to that GOOD LIFE…. The reality of this is unless you making sure homie put you on his life insurance policy and or in his will (if he has any valuable assests) that is NOT A PROMISED LIFE. I mean i dont even see why or how someone can go around faking the funk, but i mean  If the Shoe Fits, By all means wear it!!!

Drake couldnt have put it into perspective any better than this ” it may not mean nothing to yall, but understand nothing was done for me, so i dont plan on stopping at all, I WANT THIS S*** FOREVER MAN…” Forever means HARDWORK delivered from ME, not anyone else, and damn sure not a “man”… Im all for finding the right  one, but sooo against kickin it with a man for his dough, and even worse kickin it because he has a wifey and you just want to feel good knowing you can have him also….WHERE THEY DO THAT AT???  ALL OVER, but any real woman, would get out while she still can, because ultimately YOURE SETTING YOURSELF UP TO BE HURT!!! If it means him leaving you for NUMERO TRES, or because he done had enough playing and is ready to be a man and getting back  with NUMERO UNO….hurt is definately a factor in your equation even if you dont see it yet!!! But hey, if the shoe shits, WEAR IT…..

Never been the type to KNOCK another females MEANS OF “GETTING IT”, but I feel the need to address the atrocity thats occuring amongst the females in a HOOD NEAR ME and YOU

~ by B'More on October 26, 2009.